Going through a divorce can be one of the most challenging experiences of your life—emotionally, legally, and financially. At Modern Divorce Solutions, we provide specialized financial guidance to help you navigate every aspect of the divorce process with confidence and clarity.
With over 20 years of experience as a financial advisor, and specialized expertise as a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, we work closely with individuals and couples going through divorce, offering a range of financial services designed to protect your wealth, secure your future, and guide you through the complexities of dividing assets, property, and retirement benefits.
As a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst ® (CDFA®) professional, we are dedicated to securing your financial future and ensuring that you make informed decisions before, during, and after a divorce.
Divorce can be emotionally and financially overwhelming, especially for the spouse who isn't managing the household finances. The process becomes even more complex when it comes to understanding the financial implications of important decisions. This is where a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®) can make all the difference.
A CDFA® is not an attorney, but works alongside your legal team to help you navigate the financial complexities of divorce. The role of a CDFA® is to provide financial expertise and insight that helps prepare you for the legal process, ensuring you make informed decisions about everything from child support to dividing complex assets such as pensions, retirement accounts, and property.
For the non-CFO spouse, understanding complex financial terms and strategies can feel overwhelming. A CDFA® simplifies the process by offering clear calculations, debt division strategies, and creative solutions tailored to your specific situation. Whether you're seeking an out-of-court solution or need support through litigation, a CDFA® helps you avoid costly mistakes and ensures you're well-prepared every step of the way.
By providing clarity and confidence in financial matters, a CDFA® helps safeguard your financial future, allowing you to navigate the divorce process with greater ease and understanding.
Understanding and dividing marital assets and debts.
Assessing the value of what you own together, and making a fair split.
Managing and dividing retirement accounts.
Gray divorce and special needs require advanced solutions.
Calculating fair support arrangements, to include high income households and lifestyle analysis.
Understanding your options like buyout, sell-and-split or joint ownership.
Collaborative Divorce is a voluntary dispute resolution process that allows couples to reach a settlement without going to court. This approach prioritizes communication, transparency, and creative problem-solving, leading to more amicable and financially sound agreements.
In Collaborative Divorce:
✔️ The parties sign an agreement to negotiate outside of court.
✔️ All relevant financial information is voluntarily disclosed.
✔️ Both parties agree to good faith negotiations.
✔️ Each party is represented by an attorney whose role ends if litigation is pursued.
✔️ The process includes financial professionals, mental health professionals, and other specialists to help craft solutions.
Collaborative Divorce ensures that both parties receive the legal, financial, and emotional support needed for a fair settlement. This approach minimizes conflict, saves money, and prioritizes family well-being.
Mediation often falls short when it comes to handling complex financial matters—but not at Modern Divorce Solutions.
With our Mediation Support services, we combine:
✔️ A Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) to guide financial decisions as the financial neutral..
✔️ An experienced attorney-mediator to facilitate legal agreements.
This ensures that all financial aspects of your divorce are properly analyzed, structured, and future-tested before agreements are finalized. Why risk making costly mistakes?
We help you explore all settlement options, ensuring both parties can move forward securely.
Divorce litigation can feel overwhelming and confusing, especially when it comes to complex financial matters. If you’re unsure about what you should be negotiating for or whether your settlement will be enough for your future, we’re here to help.
You may have investments, retirement accounts, pensions, businesses, rental properties, or other financial assets—but how do you structure a property settlement that is fair and tax-efficient? Wouldn’t it be helpful to see in black and white how different settlement options impact your future?
At Modern Divorce Solutions, we work alongside your attorney to help you navigate the financial complexities of divorce with confidence and clarity.
Divorce is more than just dividing assets—it’s about ensuring financial transparency and fairness. As a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), we act as your forensic accountant, uncovering hidden financial details that could save you thousands.
We specialize in:
✔️ Asset tracing – Identifying and valuing hidden or undisclosed assets.
✔️ Cash flow analysis – Determining true income, including irregular compensation.
✔️ Lifestyle analysis – Examining spending patterns to establish true income and support needs.
✔️ Marital waste investigations – Identifying unusual spending, asset dissipation, or misuse of marital funds.
✔️ Complex property division – Structuring settlements to maximize your financial future.
If you suspect hidden assets, need a lifestyle analysis, or believe marital funds have been misused, we provide the detailed financial analysis needed to secure an equitable outcome. Don’t risk leaving money on the table—let a CDFA help protect your financial future.
Dividing retirement accounts, pensions, and military benefits requires careful planning to avoid tax penalties and ensure a fair split.
At Modern Divorce Solutions, we offer:
✔️ Flat-fee pension valuation
✔️ QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order) drafting
✔️ Guidance on military and federal service retirement benefits
✔️ Expert advice on survivor benefits, division options, and tax implications
We work to ensure that your retirement assets are protected and divided correctly.
Once your divorce is final, the real financial work begins. We help ensure that your financial transition is smooth, efficient, and stress-free.
✔️ Account Transfers & Consolidation – Moving funds, closing joint accounts, and ensuring you receive all awarded assets.
✔️ QDRO Implementation – Ensuring the proper division of retirement benefits.
✔️ Estate & Will Updates – Reviewing beneficiary designations and estate planning.
✔️ Retirement & Investment Planning – Setting new financial goals based on your post-divorce reality.
✔️ Tax & Insurance Evaluations – Identifying ways to protect your financial health.
We provide ongoing financial guidance so you can confidently move forward into the next chapter of your life.
Amy Million, CDFA®, AAMS®, BFA™ is NOT AN ATTORNEY AND DOES NOT PROVIDE LEGAL ADVICE.
All information she provides is financial in nature and should not be construed or relied upon as legal or tax advice. Individuals seeking legal or tax advice should solicit the counsel of competent legal or tax professionals knowledgeable about the divorce laws in their own geographical areas.
Divorce financial planning is a fee-only process that does not involve investment advice, securities or insurance transactions.
Our work adheres to the Code of Ethics of the Institute of Divorce Financial Analysts, ensuring you receive the highest standard of service.
Norman, OK, USA
Amy Million, CDFA®, AAMS®, BFA™ amy@myokdivorcepro.com 405-310-1320
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